Day 38 - You call that a handshake?

Nice, firm handshake!

I learned about the importance of a handshake when I was a Junior in high school.  We had a summer program that was training us to be Fresh Mentors.  During the program, there was a guest presenter who came in and told us that a handshake is just as important as the first impression you make.  I whole-heartedly agree.  For a while there, I was conducting various interviews for an open position on our team.  Of course, the first thing I would notice is whether or not the person bathed before the interview (yes, it was easy to tell when someone hadn't), and the next was the handshake.

Your handshake must be firm!  It must must must be firm!!  There is nothing worse than the dead-fish, limp wristed handshake.  During the same presentation that I mentioned above, the guest speaker spoke about "pressing webbies."  On paper, and even saying it outloud, this phrase has a sexual connotation to it.  I assure you, this tip is not sexual.  Pressing your webbies consists of pressing the skin between your thumb and your pointer against the skin between the thumb and pointer of your counterpart.  In doing this, you ensure a firm handshake with a pocket of air between your palms.  Now that is a solid handshake.

Ugly, weak, and lame handshake.

A nice, firm handshake gives off a vibe of confidence.  You seem comfortable and prepared when your handshake is solid.  And this is true for both men and women.  It doesn't matter what your sex, a strong handshake is very important.  Now, being that I am a petite female, I think I am already pre-judged as being meek and fragile.  That must be true because some of the handshakes that I receive from people are ridiculous!  The limp wrist, finger-tip handshake is not flattering.  It doesn't send a very good message, and frankly, you come off very weak. 

I found this great link that talks about the importance of the handshake, as well as some helpful tips to executing a flawless handshake as well.  Feel free to read this link and get some further insight on this.  And if you choose not to read it, that's fine too.  Just know, that a weak handshake is lame, and a strong handshake is cool.  You're welcome for today's lesson.